07/24/2020,
Join Monique Darling, Kink Master Robert (or “Badcarob”) and Peter Petersen for a very special Temple Party! We are including a special introduction that includes fun and experiential information about talking dirty, and we are also including a section on talking about and doing a sexy show and tell with kinky toys… How often have you wanted to just “test drive” or talk to someone who has tried a particular kinky toy? Now you can…
Have you ever been super nervous about talking dirty. Open your mouth to say something seductive, and no words would come out! Feel like you’ve forgotten the entire English language in one awkward moment!
Self-conscious–petrified that you will say something that your lover would find silly (what if they laughed?), or worse, turn them off entirely. Plus, a super secret fear was that they may judge you for the things that turned you on?
We know so many people still struggle with dirty talk. That’s why we’ve teamed up to create this dirty talk workshop. Together they will shorten your learning curve so you can feel more confident in your dirty talk skills.
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring kisses and hugs in a relaxed space. This party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensuality to the next level. The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare. Come dressed in something that makes you feel sacred and feeling good about yourself!
Next let us lead you through a welcome circle where a room of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways maybe you have never even imagined!
What does temple party mean?
In short, it is whatever it means to you. We attach the word ‘sacred’ to any practice, experience, or way-of-being that slows us down and deepens our experience of being alive. Our sensuality is a manifestation and expression-of our vital life-force and creative energy. It can play, move, and be shared and enjoyed in many ways. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation with a capital “P” can mean many things and voyeurs are as warmly welcomed as the most actively engaged. It’s a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and FUN!
This is the party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.
WHO SHOULD ATTEND:
You are sensually and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others. You’re a good sharer, you take good care of your toys and you use your words. 🙂 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly…… and/or you’re someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.
If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I don’t want to play,” PLEASE COME and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party at any time.
My biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.
This will be a very chill, fun, playful event. Come relax. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch. Bring some popcorn. This is a clothing optional “play” party!
All genders, bodies, and orientations welcome. Come as you are and have a great time!
we especially welcome trans, intersex, queer and other folks living anywhere within the spectrum – we recognize how heteronormative spaces can be and aim to challenge this through our conversations and actions..,
TIME:
Doors open at 7:30 PM and CLOSE AT 8:00 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space. The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, craft meaningful conversations, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to play. There will be a closing circle at midnight. PLEASE text Monique at 201 539 6653 if you’re unavoidably running late, but please just be on time!
WHAT TO BRING: Whatever food and drink you might want for the evening. No drugs or alcohol please. We like our attendees to be present and capable of connection. Bring whatever clothing you’d like to don and lounge in while we frolic or just throw on your regular weekend clothes for relaxation. Bring along whatever toys or accessories you feel comfortable sharing with select individuals and whatever protection makes you feel safe, whatever you might be needing to create that perfect evening. Oh, and of course, please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.
COST:
Love Exchange starts at $55 male identified $30 female and other identified
$85 for pairs
RSVP HERE:
About Your Facilitators:
Monique Darling, Author of ‘Beyond Cuddle Party’ and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.
YOU, you are the gift!
Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 18 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 16 years. Peter has been teaching in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives.
Robert Wilson has been a part of the BDSM Lifestyle for over 25 years. He started on the bottom and worked his way up. He has learned from some of the very best in the lifestyle and believes in paying it forward. He is known for his Florentine Flogging abilities and his work with Bullwhips, but he is skilled in many aspects of BDSM and play. He likes to incorporate many things to enhance play like Tantra and Orgasmic Meditation.
He was a member of Cirque De Sade and has performed on stage at events such as the Fetish and Fantasy Ball in Las Vegas, Club Hentai, Bondage Ball, etc… He has also made an appearance in “S & M Sally”, a parody about the BDSM lifestyle. He is about promoting and advancing a positive understanding of BDSM and sex positive lifestyles